how to reduce tension and bad temper

69

By Matrixkavi

 

You may sometimes face situations when you feel that you are nothing, or someother times you may feel like the responses to your actions were not, in a way, upto your expectations, leaving you more confused and enraged at the same time. Your blood pressure may eventually increase in the course of this helpness and anger.

What I said may sound silly but it is a very serious problem indeed. It is true that "Laughter is the best medicine" but it may sound too rude of me if I advice you to laugh when you are tensed or not in good humour. Instead, i shall tell you some other tips to control your emotions

1) Try some breathing exercises:-If you are annoyed at someone, take care not to show your bad temper to that person. To control you anger in front of him/her, just close your eyes and either count from reverse ten to one or just take deep breaths. The latter technique will also help you reduce tension you may feel while going for an interview or the uneasiness you may feel minutes before you address an audience.

2) Sleep well, feel well:- This also may sound wierd, but before scorning at this point just remember that most of the people with health problems like hypertension, heart attack, vertibral disc slip , etc, are found to have less than six hours' sleep a day. Most of the coolest and successful guys I have met in my life are big "sleeping" maniacs but I would suggest you only an average of six hours sleep because sleeping too much can make you lazy.

3) Practise yoga:- Yoga is a remedy to most of the physical problems and mental stress that you may be undergoing.

Following these instructions will help you get rid of bad temper and tensions. Try these and you will find yourself to win hearts of many in the days to come. Remember the proverb "what you sow, so will you reap". Give some love and respect and get them in return. Believe me, this is the ultimate secret of success!

Comments

Kimberly Bunch profile image

Kimberly Bunch 2 years ago

Nice job! Here's a bonus: http://hubpages.com/hub/relaxation

saranya 2 years ago

i cant undeerstand

savita 2 years ago

aaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Soph 2 years ago

Could have done with this earlier... before I threw two pens at my Mom and swore at her. :(

Renu 22 months ago

i wanna try ..

midhun madurai 22 months ago

useful

Keratosis 21 months ago

Hi,

I experience tension in trying to be an active, vital, and empowering leader when at times it feels The Church believes single, never married, childless, women are the least meaningful part of the family. I also experience the tension of how to show love, respect, and grace to other believers, while also standing up for injustice and speaking out when God’s character or his Word is distorted, twisted, or made lukewarm.

vinothkumar 21 months ago

i am very shorter temper person how to avoid this? please give me the suggestion?

fatima 19 months ago

relx from tension

fatima  19 months ago

i have my son tension

dines 19 months ago

missed cridit card

daran 17 months ago

excellent tips yar really works . bye..............

John 16 months ago

I get angry when anyone lectures me as though I was a small child especially when I have already been told what to do by someone else. It niggles me when I try to explain that I have already been informed I am ignored and the person lecturing me carries on and on

TAYLOR 16 months ago

No Crap

Jeet 14 months ago

nice i will try it.

suresh 14 months ago

good

babu 11 months ago

how to reduce the unnecessary arguments

souhardya 8 months ago

thanks it really worked and the breathing exercise helped me in keeping my mind calm

deepika 8 months ago

useful one........... please give some tips for avoiding hesitateness,,,,,and complexity.....temper too

Virus 8 months ago

This world have 60 plus billion of ppl. They do have their own pressure,tension,unforgiveness, hate n so many thing else. Ever pressure will create problem to themselfe. Be a cleaver human we need to know wat is right to do...

matt 4 months ago

The only help for anger is patience because people will always get you mad, ingnore them and move on.

Balaji 3 months ago

I get angry when my parents don't buy for my things I really want.

shiva 3 months ago

i get very angry when my gfrnd do's some thing which i don't like

Megha 6 weeks ago

Its easy to say but difficult to follow the same. When u r angry to dont even recollect all this.

kapdamakan 5 weeks ago

I hv a very short temper...as in very.. i tend to take it out physically... i found this song. which sooths me to the core.. if i may suggest.. try this link.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXibqupia4E

saara 3 weeks ago

i hate when my frenz lose temper on me for no use.

How To Be Happy Again 12 days ago

Nice to see someone write about bad tempers in relation to tension! Good Job! I'd also suggest: http://616christine.blogspot.com/

Submit a Comment
Members and Guests

Sign in or sign up and post using a hubpages account.



    • No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked
    • Comments are not for promoting your Hubs or other sites

    Please wait working